NOT THE IT GIRL
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I am a gal focused on living life with as much peace and joy as possible.
Check in on Wednesday’s and Friday’s for some self-help and some laughs.
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Consumption – The Drug of Choice
Have you ever felt like shit? Either because of a life event (breakup, death) or because you feel bored and/or alone? Then you reach for it. Your drug of choice. For some it is shopping, alcohol, drugs, dating, or food. At one point for me it was all of them. I ate like shit, so…
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There is nothing you can’t do
When you are authentically yourself We are born with a set of likes and dislikes. What food we like and how much we like being coddled and cuddled. Even as infants we have a preference for certain colors and sounds. However very early on we start to be bombarded with what we “should” do and…
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A Realistic Morning Routine
We have all seen the ASMR videos or the “perfect” morning routine blog, vlog, TikTok etc. Allow me introduce you to my morning routine. It is full of good intentions but one thing stays the same. It’s never perfect. Mornings have never been my thing. I loathe waking up to an alarm and left to…
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I ain’t Jenny from the block
I have LOVED Jennifer Lopez since I saw her as a back up dancer on In Living Color. I have seen every show, every movie, listened to every album, and gone to every concert I could afford. I am a FAN. So you can imagine my excitement when I learned that our 10th grade dance…
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You are exactly who you are meant to be
Do you follow social media accounts that promote how to “be the it girl/person?” Does watching these people on social media make you feel like you need to be living a picture perfect life? Do you spend tons of time trying to be like “The It Girl/Person” but end up frustrated or disappointed because you…